Help your child to get rid of the bullies

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Our children, may be of any age, would be facing some or other types of bullies from their schools or in their play circles.

It is necessary for the parents to teach them, how to get rid of those bullies.

Here are some tips to teach the children.
 

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· Some bullies may attack physically , with whom the child has to be very careful.

· The child should always try to avoid these type of bullies by facing them. But the bully should not be aware, that he/she is being avoided. If they come to know, their action would multiply .

· In due course, the child would be knowing all the whereabouts of that person , thus could avoid those areas , where the bully goes around.

· If the child happens to face the person suddenly, he/she should not show any fear and try to face with courage.

· During this time, it is better for the child to be with any other friend/s. This will surely give moral support and the bully will also hesitate to attack physically.

· The bully will surely try to lengthen the conversation which may also be unnecessary, and create a new reason to attack.

· So, it is better to finish the conversation as short as possible, and move away from the scene.

· If the attack goes severe, they can be complained to the teacher or parents.

· If the bully is only teasing or calling names, the child can also tease the bully by calling names.

· This should not go serious.

· As far as possible, the child can avoid this situation also, by not facing these kind of persons.

· Again, if they happen to face, they should not fear but face with courage.

· The main thing the child should follow is, he/she should never cry or show the fear in front of the bully. This will make the bully to act more aggressively.

. The bully should know that, the child will also give back in the same way.

· Initially, the child can try to make friends with everyone. But when the bully doesn’t accept the friendship and is interested only in teasing the child, immediately, the child should stop talking to that person.

· The child can also avoid the friends of this bullying person . They also will try to act like their friend only. Sometimes, they may act too much more than the original person himself.
 

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In all, the child should be taught to face almost all the bullies which he faces, without any fear, but with full confidence.

You can also teach that, these things are very common in childhood and everyone would have faced these. Give them as much confidence as you can.

This will surely make them to face any kind of problems in their future.

But at the same time, you should give them confidence , that you will also help the child , when the bully goes very severe, and it should be complained to you.

 

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