How can I help my son

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my son who is 16 year old fought with a neighbour girl who is couple of yrs younger for a silly issue.In the end she kicked him in his groin. He cried and I took him to hospital. He is fine except with pain which he need to suffer it for 4-5 days..He cant even wear proper dress.He is v v embarrassed and when she and her mom came to rebond, he got v scared and he was covering his vulnerables with hand. He is too afraid to meet her.How can I help him..His testicles are applied with ice..how can I infuse some confidence
 
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oh.. its really tough for boys to feel and digest the thing..

I don't know the actuall problem with ur son and her. if it can be shared, pls tell here then only we can able to give suggestion..

Is that really a silly thing, so why a girl will kick for silly thing?

try to advice him soothingly if you can't pls get help from any pshycologists..
 
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she was playing with a ball and when she threw it, it got hit on him.So he threw it back tonto her and it develops into a fight.We know the girls in this generation wont budge fer anything and lol..it was him to take her heat..He was also a bit bullish..So i think its a good learnin exp fer him
 
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oh.. its a big... silly fight..

If his health is ok.. better take him for any outside places or your relatives house.. environment change wil bring a good change in his fear..

Pls don't tell that he was kicked by a girl to anybody infront of him. it wil make him feel low esteemed..
 
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yeah..thinking the same...I this his ego is also cracked by her..she must be knowing to fight back..he is embarrassed as it s a girl who is younger too, kicked him down...told him no one can withstand a kick down there...plus he needed a small doze of his own medicine..was a bit arrogant
 

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oh... for this silly reasona ah.. that girl kicked. so sad of your son. he will be very much hurted, since a girl beated her in front of others

it will stay as a permanent wound in his mind.

i don't know what to suggest you..? get help from other members of penmai. they will give you nice suggestion to handle your situation.
 

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