how to adjust with in-law.

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i am a house wife, my mother-in law wants to lead the family with my husbands salary.my husband is a only son to their parents. i agree to this before marriage but not after marriage . even am interested in leading the family, but she is not ready to agree. suggest me directions.
 

mahis

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Hi Vijaya!

if ur husbands salary is enough then jus enjoy ur housewife life da

velaiku poitu vanthu antha alupula kitchenuku poy husbandkum veetukum vendiyatha parthu athukapram nama velaikala parthu uffffffff itz too much stressful da theva iruku vali ila apdingrapa nama extra poruppukala sumakalam but apdi oru avasiyam illathapa seyra visayanga aarambathula oru gushila senjudvom then life erichalaydum

and u hav agreedla da before mrg then ippo ne atha meerrathu periyavanga manasa kasta paduthum iliya anavasiyama?
athuvum ore payyan apdingrapa inum kastamda
solli paru kindah
avanga agree panalaina vitru njoy the house wife life dear :)
namaku veetlaye neraya porupu irukuda
atha superbah senju gud gal nu vangidu :)
 

umaravi2011

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Hi Viji

I am really surprised you want to lead your family bypassing your MIL why da?

Let her carry the family burden you enjoy your life with your husband how many of them getting this opportunity?

Your husband is the only son or not is immaterial he is their son first then only your husband
if she has not selected you as her DIL imagine?

and there is a say every action got a reaction keep in mind and moreover you are a future MIL dont forget that
 
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why you want to lead family by bypassing your mother in law???
its suggested to be patience and let her do as she has been doing for long time, when you were agree before marriage then what caused you to think about this.??

just put yourself in your mother in laws shoes and then think again, you will get the right answer..
 

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