my sister inlaws (one is elder and one is younger) are always causing problem in our life. how to avoid them. whenever they are coming to our home they are making us to spend a lot for them. whenever they are going fro our home we need to buy and give them silk saree. if cost gets low about rs.5000 then they are thinking it as cheap and not respecting us. atleast they come to our house thrice in a year. so nearly speding 30k for them alone and then for their kids its coming nearly 50k per year. once in a year is ok for us.. but whenever coming means it is quite annoying for me. tell us how to avoid this situation and make them understandable.