how to i tel about my love to my parents

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friends need some suggestions for me. i am loving a guy for more than 5 years, he is a bank employ. i am working in private concern here in chennai. my parents are searching alliance for me. now am 25 years. i want to tel my parents about my love. how to reveal this matter to my parents. i am very tensed please help me
 

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Hi Paaru...
Love needs courage. Develop the attitude first.
Try to tell the whole story to your Mom first, like how you met him, how you eloped the love with him, and how he liked you, and what is the family background, how he behaved till now, how about his parents, etc in a phased manner. Reveal all the truth. Actually your mom should be a best friend. If she accepts, then she will slowly tell your dad and at a later stage, they may come to a final decision and getting married to the same guy you are in love.
(Provided, if you want to get married with parents blessings)
Also confirm from your lover, whether he is interested to get married to you and will keep a sustained life with for ever. Else things will collapse.....

Hope this will help you to some extend.
 

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Mm konjam kastamana vishayam

enna idea kudukrathune theriyala :)

ne enna panu nice ah antha payyana ammata intro pannu possible na apdiye pickup aaki pickup aaki kadaisila enaku unnoda mrg invitation anupi vachudu marakama nan vanthudren :)

m athu konjjam kastamna vera vali illa nama guruji solra mathiri un aaloda sakala kalaa valamaikalai chumma chana masala serthu sollu but shhhhhhhhh nalla pillaya sollanum ok :)
athan mukyam apdiye sentimentalah touch panitanau vachuko then apdiye proceed aaki ingayum kadaisila enaku invitation anupidu maranthudama :)

but dear porumaiya theliva sollu athuku munadi nenga rendu perum theliva yosinga ennena nos varum and y s varumnu
athuku pre prepared ah irunga ok

All the best for Ur successful life :)
 

umaravi2011

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Hi Paaru

My hearty congrats for your love and my wishes for your love success.

I have an idea

you take your guy to your house and introduce him as your friend and see the reaction

and slowly let him visit your house and speak to your parents

then you tell your love to your mom

Ture love never fails dont worry
 

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Mm konjam kastamana vishayam

enna idea kudukrathune theriyala :)

ne enna panu nice ah antha payyana ammata intro pannu possible na apdiye pickup aaki pickup aaki kadaisila enaku unnoda mrg invitation anupi vachudu marakama nan vanthudren :)

m athu konjjam kastamna vera vali illa nama guruji solra mathiri un aaloda sakala kalaa valamaikalai chumma chana masala serthu sollu but shhhhhhhhh nalla pillaya sollanum ok :)
athan mukyam apdiye sentimentalah touch panitanau vachuko then apdiye proceed aaki ingayum kadaisila enaku invitation anupidu maranthudama :)

but dear porumaiya theliva sollu athuku munadi nenga rendu perum theliva yosinga ennena nos varum and y s varumnu
athuku pre prepared ah irunga ok

All the best for Ur successful life :)
experiance pesuthu polla
 

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