How to live a happy married life?

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  1. Respect each other's views at all times.
  2. Listen to each other properly.
  3. Give priority to your spouse over everything else in your life.
  4. Sincerely say "I love you" at least once a day to each other.
  5. Start your day with a warm kiss.
  6. Take time out and spend a few moments together just the two of you alone. Maybe you and your spouse can go out for a walk or a drive to get
  7. away from others.
  8. Talk graciously to each other about your thoughts especially things for the two of you to agree upon or do together. Doing this daily helps
  9. foster communication between partners.
  10. Talk and thus be open hearted; this can create a bridge of thoughts and understanding.
  11. Never say things in anger intentionally meaning to hurt your partner.
  12. Verbal hurts are hard to erase and can cause lasting damage to your relationship.
  13. When arguing keep to the subject and try not to personally attack your partner
  14. Remember that ideally and spiritually both of you are like one soul and two bodies, so don't ever hurt each other or you hurt yourself as well.
  15. Don't forget to do the little things that make each of you smile and feel loved.
  16. Be patient with each other as much as possible.
  17. Don’t break martial confidences or use them as a weapon during an argument
  18. If you sense that something is wrong with your partner take time to embrace them and ask what's the matter, may be that's the time they need your attention the most. Don't ignore that opportunity.
  19. Make sure your partner knows how much you appreciate the little every day things they do, like doing the washing up or making the bed.
  20. Surprise each other with little gifts or tokens of appreciation. This will make the moment even more special. Gifts need not be expensive. A little something to create warmth and sweet memories.
 

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If the above 20 points are followed by the partners then there will be no application for divorces in family court.
 
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Nice information from you. I have read all this points, Its so wonderful and nice result too. Thank you for sharing this wonderful page. I always find it in google for this, and this is the best. I like 2 and 3 one point. Its so good and nice.
 
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Trust and respect plays very important role in any of the relationship. When you are both so successful, independent people never forget to cheer each other because these are the moments which we have to share with our partner and cheer him/her for more success in the future. All the tips are very useful.
 
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Very excellent points. Have to be followed by all. My tips is to avoid, arguments in that situation and it can be explained when the parter is cool.
 
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very nice and detailed points about happy married life. thanx very much for sharing. in my point of view trust is the main key of the married life even in any relation trust is the key to hold the relation. If both partners trust each other no doubt the life will be long life and if there is not trust between them it will a total mess.
 
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Nice points about marriage life u have shared
if we will do like this
we will spend beautifull and long lasting married life
 

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