How to maintain good relationship with in-laws

Parijatham

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It is always a tough thing for a woman to maintain good relationship with the in-laws when she entering and managing her new family.

Due to situations, characters & behaviours of different kind of people in your spouse house, you may feel discomfort. Every woman must come across this part.

Maintaining a good relationship with everyone in the family is the base for leading a happy and peaceful married life.

Friends come forward to share your personal ideas and suggestions to maintain good relationship with in-laws (MIL, FIL, SIL, BIL)...

You can also share your personal experience which you faced in your family and how did you handle it etc..
 

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i think that both husband n wife must have a better understanding.they should love n accept each others family.no one is perfect,so v should be able to accept our inlaws n their minuses then everything will be smooth.


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Parijatham

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i think that both husband n wife must have a better understanding.they should love n accept each others family.no one is perfect,so v should be able to accept our inlaws n their minuses then everything will be smooth.
Hi Jeyanthi... Thanks for your suggestions.
 

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Let me give some ideas to maintain good relationship with your mother in law.

First of all, Dont think that you are going to get troubles due to your mil. you may heard lots and lots of stories from your neighbours, friends and relatives. you may get scared or you might be (wrong) adviced to handle your hubby and mil. If you are having any bad opinion or anything about your inlaws, get rid off it. Mingle with her normally without any fear or frustration

Treat her as your mom. Take care of their health and make them feel free with you.

They might be harsh sometime, adjust that time, dont argue with her anymore. just be patience whenever she is arising argues. By seeing your patience and tolerance, she itself will stop quarreling with you.

Mil and Dil problems are common in most of family, Dont take it too serious.

Get an opinion with the senior persons in your family before getting proceed with any ideas. They feel happy if you do so.

Spend your free time with your mil and talk with her. know about her likes and dislikes. and ask about her needs and try to fulfill their wishes and needs.

You can also take her for shopping with you once in a week. Make her to select a few things for your family or for you or for your husband and kids. She loves to do that.

Dont try to let her aside in any occasions and circumstances. That will make them to feel lonely and vexation.

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Hi Friends,

Is there any link "How to manage teenage children" in our block.... I am mother of teenage girl... I really need lot of advice & experience sharing from you Frinds.....pls
 

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hi...... good evening,,,,,,,,,,,

its not very difficult task to manage the teen agers......
because of hormone change, we feel some different activities in them...
first one..
their ressing code,
second the crush in opposite sex..
third always like to be lonely..
fourth keep on dreaming...
slight diversion and less concentration from studies..
like to chat more with friends through mobile or internet..

to overcome this issues,

u be a good friend to ur daughter,,,
talk openly to her..
guide her in a polite way...
try to give practise about meitation to ur daughter .
indirectly monitor her activities..
dont use harsh words ..
dont stress her to study..
while she is studying u sit along with her..
keep the computer in the common places like hall or living room.. so that they cant misuse the internet....
finally dont keep on watching themm.. be friendly.. thats all


regards,

viji
Hi Friends,

Is there any link "How to manage teenage children" in our block.... I am mother of teenage girl... I really need lot of advice & experience sharing from you Frinds.....pls
 

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