hi all i am meenakshi. i got married in jan. ours is an arranged marriage. my husband is a software engineer. the relation between me and my husband is very good. but my prob is with my mil. she is always particular about my dressing. she expect me to wear saree in all days. she even not accepting to wear nighties. now i am wearing salwars when i am in home also because of her compulsion. but for that too, she is scolding indirectly. i told my husband about my mil. he also talked with his mother and she is not ok. and again i got blasphemy from her. i cant able to wear saree for the whole day. i am not comfortable with that. but if i said this she is not accepting. she is asking yen nanga selai kattitu velai seiyalayanu. even my sister in law is wearing night dresses in home. but she is putting restrictions for me only. i am really fed up. please tel what should i do. should i adjust with her conditions? or how to manage her?