husband is not listening to mywords

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hi sisters

i am stella married before 2 years. i am a house wife living with my in laws. still i dont have child. i asked him many times to come for check up. but he is always telling some reason to avoid this. what i do. my in laws also are not saying anything to him. how can i take him to hospital. pls help me sister
 
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i think you just discuss with him to know that why he is not ready for medical check up..
what is the actual matter ..try to get his confidence and ask him .. tell him you want a child..
science is advance so doctor will help us..talk with your inlaws and told them to help you to convinced your husband..all the best dear..
 
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Low sperm count is such a common problem due to current diet, smoking, drinking habits etc. It is not a measure of a man's virility or masculinity. tell him you will always respect him and he need not feel any fear to get his sperm count tested. It is a very ordinary physical problem just like having low red blood cell count which can easily be corrected by iron supplements. Similarly there are so many ways to deal with low sperm count or low sperm motility etc. If a simple test can help you both have the gift of a child, wouldn't he want to do that. Also tell him, this is the one time he can legally with your full consent and without any guilt, watch porn or see a porn mag. ( Usually this helps them produce a sperm sample and reduces the anxiety involved in the process). Good luck.
 

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Dear Stella,

I agree with some of the inputs given by our sisters. But if they dont work, you may try something dramatic.

Why dont you ask your husband to get to adopt a child?.

This attempt will push your husband to come out of the shell. In case he has some problems known only to him that will come out.....If he instantly agrees for adoption then there is a big possibility that he is having some problem.

If he is not having any known issues he will tell you that " let us wait for some time, we will get our own child". At that stage you can propose a thorough medical check-up.

You need to meet the doctor before taking your husband and explain your problems and then opt for a meeting with your husband.

I feel the above will work for you....before proceeding think about it for sometime get yourself convinced and take it forward...

You meeting a doctor before hand will also help.
 

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Hi Stella,

Sorry for asking this.

Do you check yours. If yes then you speak with him while he is in good mood. and understand the problem.
If no you first check and after you push him. explain him that there is nothing wrong in checking.

Google and show the realities spread over the world.

This is not for hurting you. Since he is not co operating with you na. So...

your periods are normal? are you trying from past two years?

Try to indulge in ovulation days. 8-16 day depend upon your cycles.

Sticky baby dust to you.
 
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