Husband not helping in kitchen works?

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My son is now 7.5 months old. I am working from home (i had assigned with my company like that till my son complete his first year i work frm home). My husbant comes from office by 6 PM he simply watch TV, talking with his friends etc but not helping me. I didn't even find time to even take bath or just relax. When i ask him regarding this, he is just saying that schedule it and work. (did you think that schedule works in a place where we hav kids)

I'm so much exhausted help me how to make him involved in small helping works.
 

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hai sister. . .
1st spk frnkly wit ur husbnd,,, about ur prblm..
clearly say ,
to do some works i cant. . . im feelng tired...
from simple work , u start ur help. . .
whil im takng care of child , u can do this work. . lik this tel frm smal work. .


even though i put scudl and do this home work.. bt i cant do well all d works. . .

also im feeling very tierd.. i cant spnd tim for myself. .
so plz undrstnd. . .

lik this tel ur opinion. . .

dnt yel ur husbnd for this prblm. . .

bt dnt hide ur worry . . .!!!!

suppose he dnt wnt to do kitchn work or other home work . .
thn tel just take care of child whil u dng other home works. . .
step by step tel him. . & try to undrstnd ur health & feelings to him . . .

dnt worry . ..
ur hus wil undrstnd this quikly aftr good cnversation. . .
all d bst. . .
 

sarojini suresh

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Hi,

Don't get exhausted with it, if he is not helping you make him to do. When he is watching TV give your son to him and you do kitchen work, let him watch along with his son. Involve him and you try to get help from him. Now, your son also may follow the time for his sleep, get your things done at that time.

He may think that from morning he spends time in his office so he want to relax so you may put your kid's bed in front of him so that you need not tell him to watch him. He himself will do.
 

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