in-laws issues

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hi i am married for 10yrs. mother of 2 children. elder son is doing his 7th and my daughter is studying 3rd std. from the beginnins i have issues with my in-laws. the major problem is my fil and sil. they are only big problem in my relationship with my husband. soon after our marriage we lived in a separate family. but after few years, my in-laws (mil, fil and sil who is living separately from his husband) joined in our family. because of them particularly sil more problems came in our family. after some problems, they lived separately near to our area. that also big issue for us. they never cooked. i want to cook and bag the foods for them. this happened very often. we shifted our home far away from their place. some years gone peacefully. and now again the same situation, they also shifted to nearby house. my sil what to say very very lazy person. not at all doing any work in home. mil only doing all works. mil only cooking foods for everybody. sil has two kids and she never cares for them. daily i need to prepare lunch for them also. i don't hesitate to work for that kids and my mil. but my sil, what she is doing simply in home?she don't even cook for children? my husband and fil are supporting her. they are saying she don't have any others than us, she is living separately and we only need to take care of her. we can take care but should we do these works and all. being a woman cant she take care of her own family. because of her my husband fights with me daily? pls tell what i have to do these people?
 

sathya88

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hi madhu how can she be like this? what about her parents? why they support her? they didn't tried to make to live with her husband? i can suggest you to stay away from them. its not at all to mingle with these people. you need to convince your husband. don't argue with your husband. try to have calm discussion about this matter when he is in good mood. first explain politely about what she is doing in home everyday. if he listen to your words then talk about shifting your house to somewhere else. or simply find some places nearby your children's school and convince your husband to move there. it is a better option for you if husband not listen to you. wait for other friends suggestions too.
 
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hi sathya yes she is that kind of person only. she was living separately before my marriage. i think they never told to live with her husband. but they will collect some amount of money from him. they never felt guilty about it. i asked my husband about her at the beginning. he didn't respond it properly. i also avoided to talk about her as it creates problem with my husband. thanks for your idea sathya. i will talk with my husband. pls pray god for me to have positive response from him.
 

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