misunderstanding with husband

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we are married for 5 years. we had no issues for the first 4 years. we were in london for the first 3.5 years. 1 1/2 year back we came back to india to settle down. After returning india we started a business partnerhsipping with my sil's husband. the business is going good. but our relationship is getting down. there is no proper communication between us. he don't have time for me. my sil's husband is not involving in business properly. my husband only spending his full time and working hard. i informed my husband to talk with his business partner to get involved in business or to put some agreement for partnershipping. but he is not listening. he supports her sister only. but they are making an advantage of my husband. we are getting misunderstanings because of this problem. my husband don't have time for his family but they are spending his earnings very happily and enjoying their life. what should i do?
 

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Welcome to Penmai....Viji.

This will be a really a bit annoying matter for you.

What you can do is:

Since you don't have a child yet, I think you could have some leisure time and you need some diversion of your mind.

For diverting your thoughts, you can also involve yourself in the family business.

Initially, you need not know all the tactics of the business. You can tell your husband to allot a suitable job for you and you could learn little by little from him all about the business.

Along with your help, your husband will find it easy and relieved from his work tension which he has to do it alone.

With your help, the business may get developed to a great extent. You may be able to expand your business branches too.

Now what you can do is, you can expand the business in another place also, ie., you can open any office or godown in another place, may be in the same town or another city.

Your husband can look after either any of these for time being. And your SIL's husband has to look after the other one.

Later, you can open the branch in another city and give the full responsibility to your SIL's husband of any one of the branch.

If necessary, your husband can handover all the rights of that branch to him. So that he will also become responsible. and your husband will also feel satisfied. You will also have the satisfaction of spending most of the time with your husband.

All the best.

 
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thank you so much jayanthy. i will try to join with him in office. if he accepts my request i will be very happy.
 

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