mollai vararchi kundriya kuzhanthai

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enoda son kku ippo 3 years aguthu. avan moolai valarchi kundriya kuzhanthai. engalala avana valarpathu kastamillai anal adutha kuzhanthaikalai pola avanala vilayada mudiyaleye ninaikum pothu romba kastama iruku. nanga enna seyvathu.
 

Yaazhini15

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hi sessin i can feel and understand your situation.

but neenga manathala ninaithu feel panrathala ethaiyum matra mudiyathu.. you should be positive.

Instead you can get good books related to your son and try to talk with him a lot. make him to undertsand a lot. there are many peoples like your son come out well. if you keep trying surely you and your son will come up to a best position.

its a blessed and gifted baby for you dont lose hope. consult with doctors and pshychologist how to handle to your child. try to know your sons interest in any field and encourage him.

take him to any natural place for a change, let the place will be less or now crowd, so that people wont make fun or feel pity on your son. others pityness dont do anything for your son.

most importantly dont show anger to him in any way it may just turn him negative and you cant find any improvement by showing your anger.

If you need motivation, there are some films related to this try to watch those movies.
 

jv_66

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Hi @sessin ,

There are Special schools for these type of Children.

You can search for them in the Google , mentioning your area and the type of disability of your son.

you can also get suggestions for these type of schools from your doctor.

Please don't let him to stay at home itself.

You can also join certain classes to handle these type of children. They will be helpful to you to take give utmost care for your son.

Please do not loose heart. He is lucky to have you as parent.

One more important thing to note is, if you plan to have the next child, please consult with 2 or 3 doctors before planning. Because, may be , neenga evlo kuzhandhai pethukittalum, idhe pola kuzhandhaigale pirakkalaam....sila type of problems ku ipdi dhaan aagum . adhanala, munnadiye consult pannitu, aprama plan pannunga.

All the best.
 
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