my hubby so moody type - how to overcome this lonely life

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ladies sorry for long post. i dont know where to vent out my feelings. so sharing here and expecting a solution.

we were married before a year. he is my relative only, now we settled away from both of our parents. he is totally typical indian guy. he is not at all listening to my words or take care of me. he just talk to me while eating and some official (he he.. home official ) only. after that he will either spend his time with his friends or office colleagues.

he comes home by 7 pm after getting refreshing had dinner watch tv and his programs then go to bed. never taking me outside either for temple or for a walk or for a cinema etc. all my expectation went out. one day i cant control it so i asked. he said i am not that character. enjoy yourself in home like that.

i am not working so it is very hard to passing time in my home. how to spend 24x7 without talking or without going out. i am new to this city so have bit fear to mingle with neighbours and going out. what can i do? i am feeling very very lonely. sometimes getting anger due to this.
 

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hai mam . .
welcome to penmai. . . .. .


r u livng wit ur family or seprtly?!!?

u say, ur hus s a relativ 1 . .
so do u knw anything abt his character or hobbies. . ?!?!?

suppos u r livng wit family thn, giv smal hint to mil or parnts..
they wil help u .. . .

thn spk wit ur hubby , i wnt to go thr.. or 2 perum sernthu veliya ponga...

hus matum thaniya poga allow panathinga. . .

just calmly sit & spk nicly wit him. .

both of u share ur feelings...

suppose he didnt lik thn u try to chang him els u chang. . .

in ur free tim , u can read books, cook dishes for ur hus, or anything to attrct ur hus. . .

if he didnt spk wit u, thn u spk. . .& u shar . . . .

cntiusly if u shar ur thoughts, or ur aims, or anything, he wil start to listen. . .

:thumbsup
 
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thanks for helping me mary.

hi .. no we are living alone moved due to his work. my parents and in-laws are living in their native.

i dont know his character, since he is my distance relative.

once i talked with him, he said you enjoy by watching tv or anything. dont disturb me like that.

i have doubt whether he dislikes me so that only he is saying like this. or else he has any affair like that my mind thinks.
 

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hmm. . .
its common to imagin lik tis dear. . . !

wt a man , he s xactly. .?!

just watchng tv or sitting n home . . is it 1ly lif na. . ?!?!

hmmm. . .
if u gt any leav or function, invit gust to ur hom or visit ur family. . .
its 1 idea to mingl wit him. . . .

thn suppos u r n shpng plc or in out, thn cal him , say i miss somthing (its a kids lie) or i dnt hv enough mny so cm here & help , pick up me . . . likwis tel. . thn he may get care on u. . . . !

thn if u r gng any functn, ask cmt for ur dress. .
wt i wear tdy. .?
is it ok. . ?
both can wear dress n same colour. .?!?
it may giv attention on u. .


thn whil he go out, giv any wrk.. means ask
whil return wil u buy this. . that. . ?!

thn wn he delyng to retun thn cal & ask wr r u ? im waiting for u ..
likwis beahv.. so he may think abt u . . .!!

bt dnt giv pressur, or over react n any thing. . .!!!!!!

step by step , enter in his world. .. .!!

show ur lov nicly. . . !

bst of luck . . . :thumbsup
 

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