not satisfied in bed with my husband..

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hi all.. i am sorry to ask this question here. i dont know right person to discuss and share my feelings so asking here.

i have good relation with my husband. but i am not not satisfied in bed with my husband.. we married before 3 years, still now i didnt get orgasmm.. he gets before me . though he understand the problem he cant able to satisfy me.

what shal we do. i am so confused, any wrong with me or with him. how to get fully satisfied in bed.

again sorry if my post is wrong.
 

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Hi @girlyd

Both you and your husband can meet a Sexologist and get his/her opinion about this.

He can inquire you both about your activities and then guide you properly.

After his guidance you both can enjoy to the utmost.

Please consult a genuine/good Sexologist who do not exploit your situation.
 

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Hi @girlyd

Wanted to add some more suggestions.

Hope, your husband is indulging in, lot of Foreplay before the intercourse. This plays a vital role. If not, let him prolong this.

And the main thing is, you should not expect too much (as you might have read in the English novels) which may disappoint you. It may not be a similar experience as you read it in the novels. (please don't mistake me for telling like this)

The most important thing is, a wife should not tell her husband bluntly, that she is not at all satisfied in his performance or the way he is indulging. This will be the most hurting words he could hear in his life. Men cannot withstand these words.

Instead, you can tell him polishly or in a elusive manner that he can try in a different way, so that you will have a better experience.


If none of these works out, then you may visit the Sexologist along with your husband.
 

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