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Hello ,
I am 29yrs old nd my fiancee is 31 yrs old..we are gettin married on nov tis year..my fiancee workin in USA IT industry..he went to US 3mths back..before that he was workin in bangalore..ou is arrange mariage..when he is in bangalore he used 2 talk with me daily ngt atleast for hr..but when he went to US he is busy in work schedule and he is not even talking with me for atleast 5mins daily..I asked him reason he says he s very busy in work dont have time to talk and he says work is important for me..he tells me that I should not show any care for him because he doesnt like care nd tell me he also doesnt give any care for me...he is not interested in romance also..if I try 2 change his mood he says he says im not in romance mood and I wont be all time romantic person...now I dont know why he is behaving like tis now..when he s in bangalore he used 2 talk with me freely romance etc...but when he went US he totally changed and I dont know why he s behaving like tis..plss tel me solution for tis..how can I change him I am showing my feelings to him but he doesnt care about me now what shall I do???
 

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Hi Subabala

Nothing to worry. First here and there timing is different.

He joined newly...so he may have work pressure.

Don't force him for anything. Leave him for some days.

Soon he will realise & call u.
 
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subhabala, please understand humans are different according to situation. Always romantic persons are very few only. many of them are romantic when they are free. if he is in really busy schedule he can't pay attention to you. don't worry and also don't compel him. he will understand once he gets settled in his new job.
 

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