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hi friends,

i am nandhini, I'm a full-time working mom with a month old son. I joined work after 3 months of maternity leave. I had my mom with me for the first 6 months. Currently, my in-laws stay with me and help take care of my baby while I am at work. but i couldn't cope up with my job and my son, and also with in laws... everyday problem arises between me and my hubby... Shall i quiet my job?
 
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hi nandhini, if you are financially steady, the the better option is to quitting the job. when your baby grows and joined the school, then you can rejoin to your job.

instead of fighting with ur husband and inlaws and making your life at risk. this is a better option.

please wait for other friends suggestions also.
 

vijigermany

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Hi Nandhini,

I wonder abt your dilemma. i am a working woman with 3 chldren in hand 4 yrs girl and 31/2 month old twins. Time management and the strong nerves are the secret

First calm yourself. The baby is growing day by day. All your mother and inlaws are near to you. Try to love them and tell your problem and ask their help in a nice and sincere way.

Talk to your man and find out his ideas. you are the one to take the decision. If you think you are incapable of managing the job and the baby, with out any regret leave the job and enjoy the upbringing of your baby.

Regards,
viji
 

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Hi Nandhini

Be firm on what to you want why this confussion

if you resign and sit at home do you think problem will not be raised?

Be patient and discuss your daily activities with your husband and take his ideas.

Kind enough to your INLs who is taking care of your kid on your absence and they are elders they may also have some problem find out their probs and try to make them happy automatically your problem will get solved.
 

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Hi Nandhini!


prob arambichapaye neenga neraiya thinnk panni neraya panirpinga still it probs na konja naal leave potutu paarunga
yenna proboda nija lead nu onu irukum

so yosichu parunga
then financiala prob varathunu, prob iruko illiyo plz urs first option is ur baby only
avana sariya upbring panrathuthan nammoda muthal kadamai

illaina , theliva porumaiya unga hubbyta pesunga
yenna ithanala theva illama unga rendu perukum prob vanthuchuna

t=yaarkaha ipdi odi odi sambarikringalo avan life qst aydum
so nithanam , thelivu , aalnthu yosithal itha moonayum rendu perum eduthutu
decide pannunga
then ellarum solra athe vetha varikal than

porumaiya irunga sure ah prob sari aaydum :)
 

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