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AnuRajesh

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Dear frnds,

my marriage is june 19,2013..i came to onsite after getting visa in aug end only...My mother in law asking r u pregnant or not...2 months than akiruku...she is aking continuously...enaku kastama eruku...we both are in onsite,,,am too senstive...enala en life ah enjoy panavae mudiyalae...all of my husbend collegue said enjoy one year after that think about pregnant
mother in law solranga un sister in law ku date thali poyruku one week doctor ta poranga tomorow but unaku than onnum ellanu solranga...we both worked in TCS chennai...epa en husbend tcs onsite la erukanga ...i took long leave for one year and came to phillipines

i have my husbend 100% support.ours is love marraige

Please help what will i do
 

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Anu,

Please do not worry for these things dear.

Neenga MIL kitta sollunga, engaluku marriage aagi 4 months dhaane aagi iruku, adhula, konja naala dhaane naanga serndhu irukom.

Ellarukume, udane pregnant aagida mudiyadhu illaya......SIL pregnant aanadhuku romba sandhosham.....naanum seekiram pregnant aagiduven.

Neengalum enakaga pray pannunga.Neengalum enaku Amma dhaane, adhanala, neengalum pray pannunga apdinu sollunga.Neenga evlo experienced person, ungaluku theriyadhadhu illa, ovvoruthar, ovvoru time ladhaan pregnant aaga mudiyum illaya, apdinu ellam sollunga.

But, this may continue every month.

So, idhai neenga oru vaati sollitu, apram vittudunga.

The main thing you should follow is, please do not react for her words.

Eppo, avanga kettalum, thaane ellam nadakum athai apdine sollitu irunga.Idhuku ellam, naanga enna panna mudiyum, thaane dhaan nadakum. apdinu sollite irunga. Nothing else, you could do.

You got to bear these words. Many....many ladies are facing these things. and that too for many years.

So, idhukellam kavalai padama, sadharanama irundhu, marriage life ai enjoy pannunga. Koodave, pray pannunga, GARBARAKSHAMBIKA vukku. She is a powerful goddess.

All the best, dear.
 

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Hi AnuRajesh, don't worry. Worrying won't solve your problem. Leave aside all the queries from your mil. They are always like that only. Expecting to get pregnant with in a short period after marriage and comparing with others is really very bad! what to do? the mil is meant for disturbing you with these kind of silly things. Don't take notice of all these criticisms. Be cheerful and confident. Have a happy life! Pray the God with full belief and dedication. That is the only way to succeed in the fulfillment of your wishes. We will also pray the God for fulfillment of your wishes! All the best!
 

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