Secret of successful Married life

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Sharing here some Secrets of successful marriage... Have a successful married life, don't forget to share yours too here.

Honesty in any relationship is one of the major factors involved. FAITH is the very base of marriage relationship. Always be true with your Partner.

Trust your partner and understand his/her point of view before coming to any conclusion. Love is unconditional so never ever try to put conditions.

Marriage will take time to adjust to the new life together. Try and be flexible enough to pull through minor disagreements that are bound to come up,sooner or later.

Avoid her/his ego for further conflicts. Don't interfere too much in others life.
Always show respect to your partner.

Don't discuss about the past history or love etc. It spoils your marriage life fully.

 

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  • The Discipline of Respect - “You can have respect without love, but you can’t have love without respect.”
  • “There’s no such thing as a perfect marriage, only perfect moments.”
  • Successful Married Couples keep their individuality and learn to resolve conflicts
  • Successful couples keep communicating, whatever the bad feeling between them. They negotiate differences and disagreements so that they both end up getting a fair deal. They smile and support each other rather than nag and whinge. They accept that sometimes, loving is more important than winning.
  • Work on problems - When you both run into misunderstandings, try to identify the issue & acknowledge that there is a problem. Determine to work on it. If needed, compromise on few things.
  • Share common goals - Great way to do this is to plan your future. This will make both of you to work towards common goal.
 

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  • Tolerate - You & your partner are two different human being with two different set of characteristics and brought-up. When things do not go as you expect, do have patience.
  • Never ever think of past, always look ahead of future.
  • “Love is a four-letter word spelled G-I-V-E” - "Most people think marriage is 50/50. It’s not. It’s 60/40. You give 60. You take 40. And that goes for both of you.”
  • Level of intimacy also plays an important role in long term relationship. So keep your intimacy alive
  • Every situation is unique. So, there is no universal advice. But these tips may worth trying to maintain a long term relationship. Be realistic right from the beginning. When you go into relationship, you expectations increase many fold. You should learn to deal with it.
 

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​Very very true words Rudhraa. Thanks for sharing
 
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If you try to create trust then honest will be automatically created because honesty is aland on which we can build the foundation walls of trust.
Trust saves your relation,promotes love and makes you more mature and respectable.So Trust is the only single way to make your relations stronger and everlasting.
 
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