its being 6 months of my marriage life, i am feeling very bored to stay lonely in home. i left job as was getting married. i didn't get transfer and so i need to resign my job. but now i feel that i shouldn't left my job. because for buying small things i need to depend my husband for money. even i wish to give him any surprises, i can't do that. before my marriage i was very independent financially. my husband is loving and caring. but when it comes to money, he is very calculative. he asks for reason for every expenses. i don't like to depend him for money. i feel ashamed to ask him. shall i go for job? will it be a solution for my problem?