hello friends i am looking for good advice from you all. i am married for for 4.5 years and i have 3 yr old daughter. my husband is good salaried person. we are living happy life with our kid. we have some savings for our family. my in-laws are living separately from us. they are living with their elder daughter as she need to go for job they are taking care of their children. now my sil's husband is going to start new business. so they need some money for investment. they asked us and my husband gave 2 lakhs for them from our savings. but again they are asking us for my jewellery to get jewel loan. i am not interested to give my jewelleries for them. we don't even thought our jewelleries for our financial problems. but my sil is asking for it without any guilty. my husband discussed this matter with me and i asked him that what he thinks. he also not interested give our jewels. but my sil continuously asking. now my mil also joined with her. how to handle this problem? how can we say that we are not interested to give jewels? we already given the money which is possible for us. but why they again asking for us.