single woment adoption?

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my husband died few years ago due to ill health. we dont have baby. i thought not to marry again, but i would like to adopt a baby child.

my parents are ok with my idea but telling me to adopt from my relation itself. i think this wont be good decision, since there may quarel in future or problem due to this.

i thought to adopt a orphanage child.

but i was very much confused. please give me positive and negative in both side.

i dont want to spoil any one's life.
 

Rudhraa

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So sad to hear your life partner loss. God bless you and gives strength.

Regarding your query, both has positive and negatives. you should choose wise.

Adoption in Relations:
  • There may be chance to ask their child in the future.
  • If the kid knows the real parent he/she may show affection to their real parents.
  • You have to choose the adopting child without confusing the relation between he/she with you and her real parents.
  • The child may inherit your family gene in any way.

Adoption from Orphanage:
  • There is no chance of getting the child back, but if there is any jealousy relatives they may disturb the child by saying the truth.
  • The child may not resemble your family.

wait for our friends they may tell some other good and wise points.
 

jv_66

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sorry for your loss @padhubala

You are taking a wise decision to adopt a child. Please go ahead and enjoy the wonderful parenting. It will heal your wounded mind.

Yes....as Rudhraa has suggested, it is always better or best to adopt a child from the Orphanage.

Please do not adopt any child from your relatives.

All the best.
 

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