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we are newly married.. need some advise on successful marriage from you all experienced persons.. i like to be a good wife to my husband. pls advice me.
 
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One of the most important things to remember when being married is to communicate, talk about everything and plan your lives together.
 

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Hi Kalpana!

Pl. go through the below tips to have a successful relationship with yr hubby.

1.Always keep the spark of romance alive - Never must you let the spark die out. You should always express your feeling to your partner and try out ways to make him/her feel special even just without any occasion. The romance will make the relationship spicy and juicy. Even in the worst of times, you should make it a point to tell your beloved how much you love him. 'I Love You' are those three magical words which brightens up any face and makes the relationship grow fonder and more intimate.

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Do not nag - Never become a nagging soul in front of your partner. That might do the entire bit to spoil your marital bliss. Maintaining a healthy relationship is important and you can do it only when you value your partner's likes and dislikes. Nagging is really harmful for maintaining harmony in your married life.

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Exhibit mutual respect - To make a marriage healthy and happy, both the partners should mutually respect each other and value each other's emotions and feelings. Both might have a different attitude towards life, but then that's where your persistence and love towards each other makes your marriage happy.

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Maintain lucid (honest) communication - For a happy marriage, you should have clear-cut communication between each other such that you can avoid all miscommunication. And as the words go - 'It's only words, and words that all I have to take your heart away'. Follow this, talk out your heart, do not keep any inhibitions and you shall rediscover the magic of your relationship every moment.

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Be trustworthy - Faith, trust and loyalty - basic foundations of any marriage, plays an important role to make the marriage happy. Never lie to your partner or do not suppress facts from him/her - that might land you in trouble later and augment misconceptions.

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Be Innovative - To keep your romance alive, be innovative at times. The daily chores of life takes away all the sheen and shine. To bring back that spark, do something innovative with each other that the surprise pleases your partner surprisingly. It shall definitely revive the magic of your relationship. Show the affection, care and love in a special way at times. It is needed!

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Believe in Constructive criticism - Everybody, with their positive and negative traits makes this world a beautiful place to live in. one should recognize each other's positive traits and criticize the negative traits in a manner that it doesn't hurt your partner.

8.Compromise - The biggest word in the marriage dictionary is compromise. Though opposites attract, yet leading everyday life with an entity who is entirely different from you takes immense persistence. You need to compromise a big time to sustain the marriage happily. Adjustment with each other is what makes the relationship healthy. And that should come from both the parties.

9.Do not forget special days - For a happy marriage, you should not forget the trivialities of a relationship. Do not forget the important dates in your life - when you might plan to surprise your partner. Making him/her feel the difference is absolutely necessary.

10.Share responsibilities - To keep a marriage healthy, happy and rejuvenating, you should share and delegate your responsibilities among each other such that there is balance at work and home. Team effort always gives you positive results.
Wishing You for a happy married life
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Dear Kalpana, Best wishes for happy married life. I dont want your take time otherwise you will be enjoying with your husband. two secrets of successful married life is vittukkodukkum manappaanmai and understand your husband from his angle. No ego or pirantha vettu perumai. neengal buddhisaali enave vilakka vendiya thevaiyillai. all the best and have a nice married life.
 

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  • பணியிலிருந்தோ அல்லது பயணத்திலிருந்தோ கணவன் வீட்டிற்கு வரும்போது அவரை நல்ல வார்த்தைகள் கூறி வாழ்த்துக்களுடன் வரவேற்று உபசரியுங்கள்.

  • முகமலர்ச்சியுடன் கணவரை எதிர்கொள்ளுங்கள்.


  • உங்களை அழகுபடுத்தி, உங்கள் கணவருக்குப் பிடித்தமான வாசனைத் திரவியங்களைப் பூசிக்கொள்ளுங்கள்.

  • சந்தோஷமான செய்தியை முதலில் தெரிவியுங்கள், கவலையான செய்தி ஏதேனும் இருந்தால் உங்கள் கணவர் அமைதி அடையும்வரை பிற்படுத்தி வையுங்கள்.

  • அன்பான, அரவணைப்பான வார்த்தைகளை உங்கள் கணவரிடத்தில் பயன்படுத்துங்கள் (வேலையிலோ அல்லது வரும் வழியிலோ ஏதாவது பிரச்சினைகளைச் சந்தித்திருக்கலாம்).

  • கணவருக்காக அக்கறையுடன் தயாரிக்கப்பட்ட உணவை, சரியான நேரத்திற்குள் பரிமாறுங்கள் (கணவருடன் சேர்ந்து உண்ணும் வாய்ப்பையும் ஏற்படுத்திக் கொள்ளுங்கள்).


  • உங்கள் கணவரிடம் மென்மையான குரலில் அழகாக, அன்பாகப் பேசுங்கள். கணவரைத் தவிர வேறு எந்த ஆணிடமும் – குறிப்பாக – மஹரம் அல்லாத ஆண்களுக்கு முன்னால் குழைந்து பேசக்கூடாது என்பதை மறந்துவிடவேண்டாம்.

  • உங்கள் கணவரிடத்தில் “உம்!! இல்லை!!” என்று அரைகுறையாகப் பேசி, அவரின் பேச்சை உதாசீனப்படுத்தாதீர்கள்
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