Things we should avoid infront of Kids?

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Hi friends,

Share here what are all the things we should avoid infront of Kids. It may be small things like not obeying traffic signals, keeping secrets / making them to tell lies and giving chocs as bribes to a big things like fighting in front of them.

Share here all the don'ts...

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Here are some dont's,

Keeping secrets from your spouse and giving chocalates as bribes.

Telling lies to manage the situation (like telling lies to traffic police etc.)

Spending too much time with electronic gadgets, like ipad, tablets, pcs.

Joking about your kid’s teacher or school.

Fighting in front of your kids by uttering bad words or by using hands. (slapping etc.)
எங்கோ படித்தது "பெற்றோர்கள் சண்டை போடுவதை பார்க்காமல் அன்பாய் இருப்பதை பார்த்து வளரும் குழந்தைகள் கொடுத்துவைத்தவர்கள்" அந்த கொடுப்பினையை அவர்களுக்கு என்றும் கொடுப்போம்.

Talking about their marriage too early.

Cleaning floors with acids. (They too try to clean)

Should not place medicines, acids, kerosene, distilled waters in the place where they can access it easiy.

Applying pescticides with them. (they too may try, without knowing)
 

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Thnx for the worthy share Rudhra :)
 

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welcome latha! share your valuable points too.
 

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இந்த tips எல்லாம் kidsக்கு மட்டுமல்ல teenage குழந்தைகளுக்கும் பொருந்தும்
எல்லா perantsம் followபண்ண வேண்டிய
விஷயங்களை சொல்லி இருக்கீங்க thanks.
 

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Hi Rudhra,

Good Morning... Needy Topic... And you have given worthy points...
 
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  • குழந்தைகள் முன்பு மற்றவர்களை மரியாதை இன்றியோ அல்லது கிண்டல், நக்கல் செய்வது போலவோ பேசக் கூடாது.
  • குழந்தைகளை மிரட்டுவதற்கும் திட்டுவதற்க்கும் உபயோகிக்கும் வார்த்தைகளில் மிகவும் கவனமாக இருக்க வேண்டும். இப்பொழுது இருக்கும் குழந்தைகளுக்கு எதையும் கூர்ந்து கவனிக்கும் திறன் அதிகமே. நாம் பயன்படுத்தும் வார்த்தைகளையே அவர்களும் திரும்பவும் பயன்படுத்துவார்கள்.
  • குழந்தைகளை, பெற்றோர்கள் அல்லது உறவினர்களின் பெயரை சொல்லி அழைக்குமாறு ஊகுவிப்பதையும் தவிர்க்க வேண்டும். சிறு குழந்தையாக இருக்கும் போது ரசிக்கும்படியாக இருக்கும் இத்தகைய விஷயங்கள் வளர்ந்ததும் மாற்ற முடியாத ஒன்றாகி விடும்.
  • எடுத்த பொருட்களை அந்தந்த இடத்தில் வைக்காமல் ஆங்காங்கே தூக்கிப் போடுவது போன்ற செயல்களைத் தவிர்க்க வேண்டும்.
  • துணிகளை அயர்ன் பண்ணும் போது குழந்தைகளைப் பக்கத்தில் வைத்துக் கொண்டு செய்ய வேண்டாம். அதே போல, மேலே ஏறி எதாவது எடுப்பது போன்ற செயல்களை அவர்கள் முன்பு செய்யக் கூடாது.

 

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you should also see that they dont touch the open plug points. you may close it or put a tape on it so that the kids do not insert their fingers.
 

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Very useful thread Rudhra.

1. Calling names of the Physically handicapped persons, in which way they are handicapped.

2.Throwing away things or shutting the door forcefully, during anger.

3. Beating the Spouse in anger.

4. Keeping the knives or அரிவாள்மணையை நிமிர்த்து வைத்தல் கூடாது .

5.The Couples should never show their Physical Intimacy in front of their children.
They will inturn try this with other opposite sex.

6. The children should not be allowed to kiss in the lips(just lip to lip, instead of cheeks or any other facial parts) of their Parents. I have seen this in some houses and was shocked.

7. Fathers should not roam only with underwear in front of the children.

8. They should never smoke or drink or supply them to their friends, in front of the children.

9. Fathers should not ask their children to buy Cigarettes from the shop.

10.Both the Parents should avoid talking ill about their in - laws , to the children. Later, the children will not have any respect towards them.

11. Both the Parents, should not treat their elders badly, who are staying in their house.

12. The Servant maid should not be treated badly or given all the leftover food in front of the children. They should not called in singular in front of the children. They will also follow the same.

But at the same time, the used clothes can be given to the maid, by the children themselves. Along with this, the new clothes for festivals should also be given then and there. Thus, the children will understand that, both kind of clothes or used gadgets can be given to the maids.
 

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Dear Rudhra , very useful thread ......

Great tips from all of you ...... Thanks for sharing them Rudhra,Sakthi ,Saro,Jaya ka ......

For any kid their parents are their role models and Hero/heroine ..... So if parents behave in an appropriate manner that they expect of their kids, it will yield the right result .....

They mimic almost every thing that we do ....So always think before you say or do anything .......

Living abroad one thing i am facing is language issues ..... As a auto reflex we start communicating in english ..... This is to be avoided at home at all times if you want your child to atleast to be able verbally communicate in their mother tongue ..... Easier said than done ........
 

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