Tips to maintain good relationship with neighbours

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Tips to have cordial relations with your neighbours


Neighbors can be a boon or bane.

If you have a good neighbour , it is a real boon, and always try to maintain the same good relation with them.

If you happen to have an irritating neighbour, it may be a bane, but as far as possible, try to have good relations with them so that the situation doesn’t worsen.

Here are some tips to have or maintain a good relation with your neighbours.
 

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Do's

· You can be the first person to say Good morning, to them.

· Always have a smile on your face when you face them, in whichever mood you are.


· Be the first person to help them in all their necessary times.

· You can share the special dishes made at home, both on normal days and during festivals.

· You can invite them for your festival celebrations.

· If they are from different regions of the country, you can share the recipes of your region’s special dishes.

· In that case, if they are interested, you can teach few important words of your language and you can learn their language then and there, without disturbing them always.

· If you are at home and if they are working, you can collect their courier mails and other important mails and handover them carefully.

· In this case, if any elderly or ailing people are left at home, you can take care of them by visiting them often.

· If they happen to go for a vacation, collect their mails, newspapers and handover them on their return.

· You can offer them to water their plants in their absence.

Do's Contd......
 

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· Listen with care about their problems in their family and other grievances, if they are voluntarily telling you.

· If they wish, you can suggest few solutions to their problems.

· Allow your children to play with their children and teach them also to have a cordial relationship.

· Female members can go together for shopping or temple.

· Always you can talk about the general topics with them.

· In case, if any problem arises between you two, always use soft and gentle words to solve the problem.

· Sit and talk with them about the grievances in an amicable manner.

· When you happen to borrow anything from them, return them as soon as possible.

· Be satisfied with what you have.

· Keep the noise of you Television and music systems at minimum or medium volume.

· In case of any emergency regarding their health, take them immediately to the doctor or hospital.

· In such cases, help them monetarily also.

. You can exchange the gas cylinders during necessity.

 

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Don’ts

· Facing them with a frowning face, due to your mood swings at home and office, may totally destruct the relationship.

· Don’t poke into their personal matters, when they are not inviting you to.

· Don’t be too close to them, since one day or the other, if some misunderstanding arises, the total relationship may be spoilt.

· Never encourage any gossips about them or others through your servant maids or anyone else.

· Never do back biting about them.

· Don’t shout, even at your home and irritate them

· Don’t throw the garbage or collect them in front of their house.

· Don’t grumble on them for any issue.

· Don’t be jealous about them.

· Don’t beat or grumble their children, for any issue.

· Don’t allow your children also to do this.

· Don’t bore them with your personal matters.

· Don’t embarrass them in any situation.

· Never borrow any jewels from them

· In Apartments, don’t block the way in the corridor with your slippers, children’s cycles etc.

· As far as possible, try to avoid borrowing money, that too heavy amount of money.

· With the technology development, be cautious with the words spoken and the activities. They may take advantage of the situation whenever necessary.
 

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Prove the proverb LOVE THY NEIGHBOR, by following the above tips.

More suggestions are welcome from friends.
 

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Gud Tips kaa Super :thumbsup
 

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