hi sisters i am jeya. got married before 6 months. living with my in-laws. really i am getting irritated because of my mil's behaviour. she is very traditional. she is expecting me also like her. what ever i did dont do like this. follow my words and all. during my period times she is not allowing me in kitchen and in some other places. she always giving many many instructions to be act during that times. those things are very annoying. not only in this matter she is always want me to very traditional like her. in my home i was never be like that. no one forced me to do such things. even i like to follow and have more respect about our traditions and culture. but because of my mil's torture i might hate to follow these and all. please tell me how to cope up with my traditional mother in law. i just can't tolerate her. can we (me and my husband) live as a separate family? will it be solution for this problesm.