Why you shouldn't check your partner’s phone ?? !!

vijigermany

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Why you shouldn't check your partner’s phone

Relationships are based on trust and if you have been tempted to snoop on your partner for whatever reason, it indicates that you don't trust him completely.

If you have a reason to doubt your partner, then there's something seriously wrong and needs to be resolved at the earliest.

Why should you avoid checking your partner's phone?

It's a breach of trust:
Instead of making things worse by snooping on your partner and secretly going through his phone, it's best to eliminate all doubts by talking to him about your concerns.

A niggling doubt will only give rise to more suspicions:
If you choose to ignore your doubts, they will eat you up from the inside and will influence every decision you make, which will be detrimental to your relationship in the long run.

What you see is not always true:
Texts and emoticons can be interpreted in different ways. Sometimes, being quick to assume things without checking the facts can destroy a good relationship.

If you feel you have to keep an eye on him, you are
Dealing with major issues:

Trust is the foundation of any relationship, and if you don't have that, it's a sign that there is something seriously wrong. While no one is asking you to blindly believe whatever is being told to you, if there is even the slightest room for doubt, you should be asking yourself why. Also, think seriously about whether you should continue with the relationship or not.
 
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100% correct. Thank you Vijigermany!!!!!!!!!!
 

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viji,

How many indian wives are following these tips ? none .
Anyway thanks for sharing
 

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viji,

How many indian wives are following these tips ? none .
Anyway thanks for sharing

Mr. Vijayakumar.....I never open my hubby's phone rather touch his phone also. And my hubby also reciprocates the same.

We strongly believe in one another and we respect each other's privacy, and that is the success of our 25 years of married life.

This is just an information. I am not hurting your view anyway.
 

vijigermany

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viji,

How many indian wives are following these tips ? none .
Anyway thanks for sharing
hi kumar
good after noon
happy ganapathi birthday celebration

ofcourse your view is true

most indian young girls are insecure and lack of self confidence lead them to doubt their own betterhalf. The upbringing of indian women play a great role in marriage disaster.

Thanks for your feedback
 

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