i thnk it is nt the thg. usually held on 11 th day esp in south tamilnadu, nadar community. tying white thread dipped in turmeric in hip, thn gold or silver chain, in hands i thnk black bangles, thn vasambu kaapu thn gold bangle. i thnk my hubby vl b doing facing east side. aunt vl bring seer , my hubby's parents shd do al expenses. bit opposite to valaikappu. thn kolusu, gifts frm al family members.